marry me??

assalamualaikum w.w.

honestly, would you marry you?? really??

jangan begitu PeDe (baca: percaya diri) ketika jawab soalan di atas.. consider all your qualities, capabilities, flawness and bad habits.

i'd rather not list mine here.. i wouldn't call myself a lady if i do so.. too many flaws, bad qualities compared to the good ones..

but i do try to change bit by bit so that someone wouldn't have a bad misconception about my beloved faith..

plus, there're too many family conflicts from what i've heard made me rethink about getting married..

believe me, love wont guarantee you from having a huge problem which would lead to a massive divorce in the future..

what is best for you is trying your best to love your partner for the love of God and having your partner to do the same.. and expectation really do kill a relationship, instead, try your best to give as much as you could..

selemah-lemah ukhuwwah adalah dengan bersangka baik dan berlapang dada..

siapa kata ianya senang?? hebat..!! *clap3*

ikhlas itu sukar, ia semestinya harus dimulai dengan paksaan, lama-lama paksaan itu akan menjadi kebiasaan dan ia mestilah diikuti dengan jihad untuk istiqamah..

so, what is the indicator when we are ready to give a full lifetime commitment??

in my opinion, when we started to consider others' situation, and when we already manage to control and avoid from getting tempered by others' faults.. *geleng kepala banyak kali*

also, when everyone around us have no hurt feelings from all our habits, every single words and our daily act..*geleng lebih banyak lagi*

and when you can picture yourself nurture a child being Allah's Caliph, aside from developing them as they grow up..

as for what our real motive from a marriage is to give birth and raise our children to be the apprentices contribute to Islam for our creator, Allah..*kan??*

**sila abaikan bahasa inggeris saya yang telah lama tidak diasah kembali sejak zaman persekolahan dan matrik dulu**

**kalau mahukan pasangan semantap para sahabat atau anak sehebat Umar, perubahan peribadi mendekati ciri-ciri para sahabiyah adalah satu kemestian

**dah mula dapat jemputan walimah dari sepupu dan teman sebaya, mulai tersedar yang diri akan menjangkau angka 22 hujung tahun nanti.. suatu angka yang seharusnya cukup layak untuk mula meloloskan diri dari terus terkapai-kapai dengan tujuan sebenar diri diciptakan..

**mengira detik untuk menamatkan proses pembelajaran teori. Rabbi yasir wala tu'assir..!!! doakan saya.. amiinnnn9999x..